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== '''''How to Give a Fantastic Back Rub:''''' ==

I am a woman; therefore, I understand the necessity of a sexual, sensual, relaxing backrub, and also understand that men need them too.  So, throughout this short tutorial, please be aware that these hints go for both genders; I’m just simplifying for the men, and putting it in your terms.  The fundamentals are easy, and from there you must simply grow some balls and put yourself out there to attract the ladies.


== The Fundamentals of Invoking Passion in Your Partner: ==

#The number one most important aspect of a backrub is your personal hand condition.  I don't care how nervous you are or how much you like her, you are simply not allowed to touch her bare skin with cold, clammy hands or hot, sweaty paws... So, my advice, warm up or cool down, or do some breathing to relax yourself, and finally, touch yourself somewhere neutral on your own body just to make sure your hands aren't still slimy.
#Be aware that massages are always more successful on bare skin than they are over bulky clothes and that pesky bra clasp.  If she's not comfortable enough to loosen up her attire, then she is not the one to be wasting my good advice on (or she's just not drunk enough) but either way....
#As you are trying to remove her clothes don't be grabby and obnoxious or awkward and clumsy, try your best to be debonair and smooth, but not too smooth (you don't want her to think you do this all the time).  Just joke around or just ask her if she'd like a back rub, we're not idiots, we know you want our clothes off, sometimes honesty is safest.
#Now you're home free:  Just mount on up there!  Have her lie flat on her belly, however she's comfortable, then slowly straddle her, right under the bum area, trying to distribute most of your own weight evenly between your knees and the pressure you’re putting into the rubbing. Now Get To It!


== Just Some Handy Tips to Help You Along: ==

It’s nice to start from the top and work your way down, then as you work your way down you can blow her away by making her toes curl.  Starting with the neck also makes her grow more comfortable with you touching her; the shoulders are more neutral than the lower back, a sensual trigger.

Now, continue with enough pressure so that we can feel it, we probably have more muscle and more tension in just our backs than you have in your entire body; but then again, we are soft, and like to be thought of as such, so go deep, slow, and easy.  No grinding bone please.  

Next step, gradually move your way down her back, focusing on muscley parts, for instance, down the spine on both sides, the laterals, under the shoulder blades, and finally right above her bum all the way across from hip to hip.
This last area is going to be the ticket for you if you want to turn her on.  

While you are attending to her body you must also always listen to her breathing and sighs, they will tell you how comfortable she is and if she likes your touch.  Relaxation should be your goal, not sex.  If you’re lucky it will turn into a full body rub instead of just a back massage.  Just let loose and be sure to enjoy it just as much as she will be.  It may end up being arousing for both of you.

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